[pamzee]

Thanks dznygrl ... I'm a "big-picture" person & DH is not. He is stuck in what's going on in his work life this month, understandable. I've been the one managing our money for years (after he messed it up big time). I've seen our old debt shrink -- I just paid off my college loans this month, it took 15 yrs, but they're GONE! Pardon me, but I just want to celebrate! LOL I'm hoping my DH will chillax & come back around. I think it's a waste of time to worry "what if" ... because you just can't control everything. We might as well enjoy a very hard earned (debt-free!) vacation with our kids that we don't spend nearly enough time with. Our schedule is crazy! I have a jr. high schedule, elementary, and preschool schedule to manage. Half the time, yes, I am the mom-taxi. I want our kids to have this memory, dagnabit.