Holy Moly, Kim!! That is just nuts. I am so sorry you are having to deal with all of this nonsense and frustration. It sounds like you have contacted just about everyone on the list, what about an attorney? Or perhaps the newspaper? I am at a loss, and I know we have become "sue" happy, but, maybe an attorney could at least advise you as to what your next step should be.
Breathe deeply, look at some pretty flowers, and keep the faith!! (Serenity now!!)Maybe somebody here will give you some helpful advice!!